23: 023 First Outpatient Clinic - Refusal

023 First Outpatient Clinic - Refusal

The first outpatient Lin Ruofan only had two appointments. The first was a female high school student who refused to go to school. She was accompanied by her mother. Yesterday, she had studied the patient's main complaint at home and followed up on the past cases. Therefore, Lin Ruofan planned to first learn about the situation from Student mother. 2

Most of the time, patients would feel that counseling was ineffective because they didn't find out the real problem with the patient's illness. They only wanted to find out the solution through counseling the patient, but they ignored the influence of others on the patient, so they couldn't achieve the desired effect.

After Nurse called out, there was a middle-aged woman dressed in a dignified manner. She brought a girl in uniform to her. The girl had a long hair and her head was low. She didn't feel like she was looking ahead.

"Hello, Mom Qin. Since this is the first time I've come into contact with your counselor, I might need to confirm many questions one by one. I' ll take a long time to tell you. "First of all, I want to learn about Yizhen medical history from you before I can talk to Yizhen." Lin Ruofan motioned for Lan Nurse to come over." Yizhen, are you going to the lounge next door with this sister Lan to read?"

Qin Yizhen had been lowering her head ever since she entered the clinic. Even though Lin Ruofan were talking to her, she did not look up at Lin Ruofan. However, her eyes were filled with Lin Ruofan and distrust. However, for the first time, she did not refuse Lin Ruofan request. It was a good start. After confirming that she had a chance to communicate with the patient, she used her eyes to signal Lan Nurse to guide her into the lounge next door.

The consultation room had a special space Lin Ruofan required. A few days ago, she had come here with books and toys, so that the patients could relax while waiting. More importantly, it was convenient for Lin Ruofan to consult the patients and their families alone. She believed that everyone would have trouble. Apart from her psychological factors, the family and living environment were also very important. Therefore, she would not only consult the patients themselves, she would also talk to the patients' families and find out what the patients could not say.

Although the equipment was simple and crude for a private psychological clinic, for most of the counseling practitioners in the hospital, it was considered a top tier.

After Qin Yizhen entered the lounge next door, Lin Ruofan began to understand the Auntie Qin." Hello, Mom Qin. Can you explain when Yizhen didn't want to go to school and what happened before?"

"It probably happened when she was in the second year of her country. One day, she started crying when she returned home. She didn't want to go to school the next day, and even now, she did n' t want to. At first, I would force her to go to school, but as soon as she arrived at school, she would have a fever. Every time, I would receive a notification from the medical room asking me to take her home, but after she returned home, her health recovered and the fever returned. "It's not a good test." Lin Ruofan nodded and smiled as he gestured for Auntie Qin to continue. As he listened, he wrote down the key words so that he could ask more details later.

"I also went to school to learn about what happened that day, but the teacher couldn't explain why. I only said that Yizhen had a quarrel with her good friend on that day, but the teacher could n' t find out the exact reason for the quarrel. The teacher asked the classmate and I also asked Yizhen. Yizhen only told me that she had been deceived by her good friend and asked what she had been deceived. She only told me," She just lied to me." Doctor, what should I do? I thought Yizhen problem was arguing with a good friend, so I didn't go to school. It would be good if I graduated from junior high school. But at that time, she did n' t study at home all day and was in a daze. Naturally, she couldn't go to a good school. So I placed Yizhen in a private school run by a relative of mine. I hoped that I could change the environment to let her study again and see if she could do well in college. However, she did n' t go to school in her freshman year. The counseling room was already very standard for her. As long as she signed in, she would be present that day, but she didn't even sign in. "Before the summer vacation, their teacher still wanted to talk to me, so they introduced that they could come to your side to consult. That's why I dragged Yizhen over." Auntie Qin's mouth moved very quickly, and he kept talking nonstop. Lin Ruofan could feel the pressure and helplessness she was under.

In fact, it wasn't just the patient who needed to be treated. His family members also needed external help to relieve the pressure they were under. Therefore, Lin Ruofan would never interrupt the patient or his family. They would stop when they wanted to stop. However, many times, they would start talking nonsense, so the notes became very important. They could also learn from the content that they kept fighting. Which part might be the key to their condition.

Lin Ruofan got up and gave Auntie Qin a cup of warm herbal tea." Mommy Qin, please take a sip of tea. Next, I need to ask you a few questions. Before that, do you have anything else to add?"

"Actually, we don't have any problems with interpersonal communication. She will still go out with her former classmates. She can do it now, but she wo n' t go to school. If she doesn't like her teacher, she said it's okay. She asked her why she didn't go to school. She said that school was boring and she did n' t want to go, so I helped her find a general tutor. She didn't want to go to school, so she had to teach at home, but the effect seemed to be limited. Auntie Qin Doctor, please help me!" Auntie Qin grabbed Lin Ruofan hand. Auntie Qin seemed to put all the pressure on Lin Ruofan left hand. Through the pain, Lin Ruofan could feel the pressure.

"No problem." Lin Ruofan gave Auntie Qin a smile." Before I start asking questions, does Mother Qin have anything else to add?"

Auntie Qin lowered his head and thought for a moment before shaking his head to indicate that he did not.

"From what Mom Qin said just now, I've probably heard a few messages. First, Yizhen got sick when she was in the second year of the country. Second, the environment in high school has n' t changed. Third, the possible reason for her refusal to study is probably due to her classmates' relationship, but her interaction with others is n' t too much of a problem. "I don't know if I' m wrong with these three judgments."

"Yes, but she doesn't like to talk to strangers."

"This may have something to do with your personality, but it may not be a psychological problem. But I'll record it. "Are there any other questions?"

Auntie Qin still shook his head to show that he had no objections.

"Alright, if there's no problem, let's start with interpersonal relationships. Yizhen Have you ever been bullied by Tyrant?"

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